Summer In the heat of the day in the summer, I remember the saying of days gone by, "Lazy days of summer." It reminds me of a time when...

Proverbs Proverbs 31 gives us a good description of how to be a good wife!! God's word is clear about this life, and how we should live...

Scenerio Jim and Miranda are newlyweds, they are trying to find their place in life, at work, and in the church. They used to have...

Marriage Thermometer Look at your marriage from the perspective of how hot, or how cold it is? You can tell by the way you talk to each...

Marriage When we see other families it's easy for us to think they have it so good. We get caught in the comparison trap and think,...

Us Let me start by saying this isn't for everyone, but it might be for you!! This is about us! My husband and I both had a call to...

Humdrum Life can go by at a pace of a snail sometimes when you are waiting on something to happen. It can be the day in and day out...

Busy Sometimes we are so busy we don't stop to be present. We live in a fast paced world; our work is fast, our food is fast, our...

Intentionality I love this word!! We love what it does for every area of our life, especially our marriage!! Being intentional is of...

Reality Sometimes reality seems bleak. It can cause us to lose hope if all we see is the reality of the problem. A couple who is on the...

What Are You Speaking I believe in starting with where you are. And to know where you are, you have to reflect on where you have been. ...

Atmosphere The atmosphere of your home is everything!! When I think about atmosphere in the natural, I think about candles lit, music...

Start Somewhere When you are single your money is your own, but once married it becomes your money together. You may need some help in...

People I have heard it said, "People don't change." This is usually a statement made by someone who has been hurt. People are...

Marriage Marriage is a wonderful covenant between you and your spouse! I've never been more blessed than to find the love of my life and...

Promises We love talking about promises!! The dictionary says promises are declarations assuring that one will or will not do something;...

Time Time is set up for us in years, months, weeks, days, hours, and minutes. Sometimes in life we feel time is elusive, and escapes us....

Training As a young child we are taught to say, "thank you!" It's part of learning gratitude, to be thankful for what you receive, and...

A Picture Is Worth A Thousand Words When you are taking a picture you are capturing a moment in time, a memory to look back at, and it's...

Finding Who You Are I think there is a day in everyones life when we stop and think about who we are. It's a time of self reflection...

Valentines Day So, when you read this, there is 2 weeks before Valentines Day! This is a HUGE reminder to remember your spouse. You...

Hows Your Marriage? It's good to sit down and take account of where you are in your marriage. Asking yourselves some questions is a good...

Restart Have you ever just felt like you needed a restart in your marriage? It's a do over, and a place to look at your position on...

Darkness Looms When you see darkness coming your way and it is looming over you, you usually run for cover. You run to a safe place and...

List It And Conquer The beginning of the year I start getting to a place of, “ok, it’s time to declutter!” How about you? Neither my...

New Years 2021 How many of you a week, or even a couple days before the new year, decide to make a list of new years resolutions? I do,...

First Years Married Quite a few of our first married years we had small Christmas’s! We didn’t have much money and it was ok! We did...

Festive Season This is a season to be festive!!  Yes, festive!!  Are you stressed, overwhelmed, or ready for it all to be over?  I have...

Desire What is your desire?  What have you prayed over, cried over, pleaded with God for, and know He has spoken to you about?  Is there...

December 1st I love the beginning of December!!  I can officially celebrate the Christmas season without judgment!  Technically we have...

Thankfulness This is the week of Thanksgiving 2020!  It has been a year of much change, ups and downs, and trials.  It has also been an...

This is a blog I repost every year!! Enjoy!! The Prudent Wife With Christmas approaching, and all of the holiday shopping, we are...

Excited Have you ever been excited about a dream God put in your heart?  What did you think? Were you afraid you couldn’t make it happen?...

Muddy Waters This year has definitely not been a year of perfect vision.  If anything it’s a little muddy.  Have you ever been on a trip...

Prayer Time This last week as I spent time in prayer, we prayed for all of the things my husband and I are apart of, our dreams and...

Beginnings When Brent and I got married 12 years ago we had great hopes, dreams, and aspirations.  We met in November and did an outreach...

3 Months Left Can you believe we are already in October of 2020?  Less than 3 months left of this year.  The holidays will be upon us...

2020 September This year has been strange, different, scary at times, and sad. This year has also been really good! There have been...

Words Words in our marriage matter. We can go through things in life, that can push us to the edge of ourselves. We get in a place of...

Weekend Fun This last weekend was Labor Day weekend! We were full up on plans! From Friday morning to Monday afternoon we were on the...

Raging Winds Several of our sweet friends lost everything this past week. Hurricane Laura came with raging winds and rain. They were...

Accounablility In marriage we are accountable to each other and to God. We said, “I do,” in front of God and man that we would love,...

Hurts Come In this life, hurts are going to come. They can feel like the worst pain you have ever known, make you feel alone, or even...

Steal The devil comes to steal, kill, and destroy. When you put this into perspective of your marriage it can look like many different...

Direction What is the direction you are heading? Is your life leading you or are you directing it? Do you get up each day and just...

Your Husband Your husband is a man first, a husband second, and a father third. His order is God, his relationship with Him, you, his...

Summer Have you ever just stopped and thought about the abundance summer brings? There is an abundance of sun, rain, greenery, flowers,...

Faith “Now faith is the substance of things hoped for the evidence of things not seen.” The word of God is clear, we need faith to...

Whisper When you find that you and your love are sitting next to one another in public place and you want to be intimate, you may make...

Something New I’m not sure how long you have been married, maybe a month, a year, 10 years, or 50? What I do know is that if we don’t...